Like you, I never realised the
amount of time, brain power, thought and effort it took to run a blog. Most times we just come online read
something, make a snide remark or authentic comment and go on with our daily
lives. But now I know. The sleep deprivation, the time spent, while trying to figure out what that next
post would be like. And then when you
have the topic, how do I go about writing to satisfy the yearnings of many and
not just one. Oh well, I guess these are
the teething stages of my blog life and I’d probably get used to it pretty soon. I may have knowledge in fashion and how to
dress well, but cannot lay claim to being
an expert...at least not yet. So for today,
am going to lend some help from an expert in the field of fashion to make this
post worthy of your read.
Today I’m
going to take a stab at the men folks. Yes you the guys...am talking to you. Lol.
We talk and write so much about what we
the ladies wear and how good we always want to look at that 30th birthday
bash for Monica, or was it the 25th... it always seems to be the 25th...year
in, year out...I wonder. Lol. Well in planning our glam outing, we tend to forget
that no matter how stylish and glamorous we look getting to Monica’s gig,
posing on the red carpet, smiling for the cameras and waving at the fans...our
partner or escort would be standing right there next to us. Dressed in some drab knee length shorts, a
round neck t-shirts that says “My girlfriend travelled to Dubai and all I got
was this t-shirt”, and rounded up with some flip-flop on his feet which he
swears are leather sandals...faux pas?...or will you rather pretend he didn’t step
in with you? And then the next day your
glam pictures appear on Bella Naija with some dowdy looking guy in the
background and you have to lie to your friends that..."that wasn’t Maxwell" ...your
beau. Lol. Now wouldn't you rather avoid such embarrassment . Well today you are in luck as am going to
give you 7 rules of style for men from one of the most foremost expert in the
fashion and style industry who requires no introduction unless you’ve been
living under a rock for the past 3 decades. Giorgio Armani.
Giorgio Armani's 7 Rules of Style for Men
1. Clothing is the outward expression of the inner person. We all have who we think we are inside our
heads. When we are able to portray that personality
in our outward appearance we stand a better chance of carrying that look with
pride and purpose than when there’s conflict between the inner and outer
you. Am sure everyone has experienced
that moment when YOU know that you have dressed to form and feel good about it.
Well that’s the moment. Just make sure
your inner mind is not guilty of faux pas. Lol
2. An air of mystery is a very sensual thing. Deriving from Rule 1 above, creating a brand
style of dressing for yourself creates an illusion of mystery to your
audience. I know a couple of guys who
dress solely in White outfits no matter the style, design, fabric or even occasion. Do you know any like that? Do you sense that mystery? Additionally, outfits that cover all but
alludes to the possibility of exposure can give that sense of mystery required. This particularly applies to the ladies. ‘A reveal all’ outfit leaves little or
nothing to the imagination. No mystery
whatsoever. While an appropriately placed
slit on a full length outfit would create a much sharper lure.
3. Sexy is not a matter of age; it’s a matter of attitude. Ask Hugh Hefner...That
man is 88years old and still waxing strong. Lol. On a more serious note, take a look at Richard
Mofe Damijo...the whites around his head seem to accentuate his personality
better than even when it was all dark. At the end of the day, Its
the attitude that counts, and taking into consideration Rule 1 and 2 would give you
the impetus to push forward that personality you want your audience to see. That
air of importance we all seek as humans.
Some even argue that the experience of age is quite attractive...or is
it the money. lol
4. If you’re a man lost for style, find a male role model. Simple!
5. Learn from watching some of the stars in movies. If finding a role model is difficult for
you, because of where you live, or just the kind of people around you, you
could learn from the stars you watch on tv or in movies. E.g. Dbanj, Uti, Banky W, Mai Atafo.
6. Always take the advice of a woman over that of a man. Always. After
all they’d give you the view from the other side right? Besides, most times it’s
them you are trying to impress...Lol... Peacocks!
7. Men have to have the courage to be sexy, to be attractive. Men tend
to feel that they can’t be sexy because they are men as it could be
misconstrued for too much feminity.... . Well I believe a man can still dress
sexy and be decent and not be feminine.
Men should feel free to explore with clothing but please please stay
away from Jeggings or is it Meggings they call it. Lol. NOT COOL!
Overly tight or body hugging tops are not cool too.
You don't have sexy curves...so keep it moderately tight like the images below, with some breathing space for Mandingo PLEASE! LOL If in doubt, Refer to Rule No 2.
So there you have it, my fifth
post on my brand new blog. Been quite
educative for me I must say and I do hope for you too. I am sure we will get great results when we
follow these Giorgio Armani 7 Rules of Style to attract these female folks you spread your wings
for. Ladies, educating your man on these
rules would definitely make you feel proud of his appearance especially in
public places. Note that some of the rules apply to you ladies too. Best of luck.
True to form, I will ask again,
what other avenues of discuss would you rather see on this blog aside from
fashion? Let’s use this platform
collectively, to improve various aspects of our lives we may find wanting. What do you think?
Quick question...Are my post too
long? Is there something wrong with my style.
Feedbacks are welcome on Musings of Luch please.
like seriously i should learn style from Dbanj, Uti, Banky W, Mai Atafo.*pensive* if i hear, when i have david beckham lol..... nice article though
ReplyDeletesigned david emeckham
Hehe ..I see you Dave.. much thanks dear.
DeleteROTFLOL at that first picture. See pose...guys-baba! Lol. Nice blog post Dedelphian. This is my first time here but I feel your posts are ok. Will really like to see what other spheres of life would be discussed. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteLol... it's good to laugh Rich..Thanks.
DeleteHaaa haaa! Very interesting. I like this though I don't agree with everything you have written. For instance I don't agree with you copying the dress sense of your role model. You can have someone as a role model but totally disagree with his style. I...ok most of us like Michael Jackson but then I won't like to be seen in public in jump-up trousers, coloured stockings and a shiny top in the typical MJ style. Again I don't think any mature guy should be seen sagging or pulling his pants up to the knees because Lil Wayne or some hip hop star is his role model or stepping out dressed live our beloved Fela just because his your role model. About your point #2, there's this thing about people that step out in the same colour every time especially in our African society-it looks occultic. I really get freaked out when someone is always in black, white or red (like guru maharaji). Finally, fashion is very subjective and I feel a man's attire should reflect his feelings at that point in time putting into consideration the weather, the event and your social status. You should dress the way you want to be addressed.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with you. Imagine your man stepping out dressed in shorts like Jim Iyke...mbanu!
DeleteLmao @ the guru maharaji part. Okay Arinze I didn’t say you should wear some shiny sequined suit and jump up trouser because Mj is your role model, what I meant was that you should pick a role model that has a good dress sense and follow in his steps... FOR DRESSING.You can have role models in different aspects of life or can’t you? Thanks for the comment though. Much appreciated.
DeleteGo and sit down joor. Jim Iyke dresses well
ReplyDeleteJim Iyke kwannu? Mba o! Hey deDelphian remember me. Really loved this post. Read the last ones I missed and I must say you are growing from strength to strength. Kudos to you and best of luck
ReplyDeleteLol. ..Many thanks Uche ,can't mention how honoured I am.
DeleteWell this seems to be for the guys but this tips really does make sense. I for me I love Ramsey noah's dress senses and admire guys that look cool and dapper. Oluchi is my roles model "in jenifa's voice" Hahahahaha. Good job friend. Looking forward for more tips for the ladies.
ReplyDeleteChigasu
Chigasu is my roles models...Lmao. Thanks Bubuz.
DeleteD'banj looks unserious (pls "his fans" don't kill me), Banky looks sharp (fine boy), Uti.... hmm.... Uti is cool, most times appearing overly dressed, Mai Atafo, super dapper and a gentle man! let us be realistic, like delphine rightly said "dress the way you want to be addressed", in my own words "dress YOU". Our clothes and assemble (the way put together) depicts our style. We might think Jim Iyke looks ridicky in those shorts but truth is whether we agree or not "he's got style" I saw it on the runway once and he dared appear in public like that... boy's got some balls (excuse my french). BT way, what is with the badges I see on the men's traditional attires these days??? In my opinion, it is innovative and would have been so distinct if it wasn't errwhere the way it is, o boy, it is as common as Agege bread! don't copy, just know your style, ensure it is not over the top, tone it down like Jenifa said (and she was right lmgo) and you re good to go! Delphine, you are doing great *hug hug* I really like this write up!!!
ReplyDeletefunny comment Joye...lololz,...agage bread indeed. thanks darling *hugs*
DeleteNice write up I must say n funny start. Kudos to our naija guys they r doing us proud but those Jim iyke shorts r not so bad though wouldn't want to find my man in dat. Joye I so so agree with u on that badge thingy lol@ as agege bread, need to go get one to eat while I wait for d next post
ReplyDeleteThanks Linda...easy on the agege bread you guys.Lol.
DeleteGreat post again Babe. Women should also take this home.
ReplyDeleteGracias Gege....much love.
ReplyDeleteHi Delphian. This is the start of something good if you can sustain it. Good luck on that.
ReplyDeleteIn at least four places, I read "am" where you should have "I am". My advice is that you please take your time to prepare your blog posts and edit properly.
All the best.